The Thirty-One Major Causes of Unhappiness — Reason #15
Wrong selection of a mate in marriage or relationship. This is the most common cause of a person’s unhappiness. The relationship of marriage brings people intimately into contact. Unless this relationship is harmonious, failure is likely to follow. Moreover, it will be a form of failure that is marked by misery and unhappiness, destroying all signs of ambition.
Too often we try to find our happiness in others. We have been taught that someone else can make us happy. The issue with that is that if we are looking for our happiness in someone else we are bound to become unhappy. The reason is because when we do that and whoever we put the pressure on to make us happy at some point will let us down and our happiness starts to fade away only to be replaced by anger and upset with the other person.
How many times while in a relationship has your partner done something to make you question if you are happy with them or if you need to find someone else to be happy.
Most people want to change each other while in a relationship. We put so much pressure on each other to be someone that we are not in order to make the other person like or love us. We give up our friends, some stop chasing after their dreams, we stop doing the things we love to do and we stop being who we are. All because we want to be happy.
Take a moment to look over your relationship, what has happened that made you question if you were happy or not. Now if you are not happy why? You cannot blame the other person, what is it in you that has caused you to be unhappy. If you are being honest with yourself your unhappiness is inside of you.
Yes, when you get into a relationship that does not allow you to be who you truly are then you are going to become unhappy. That is a promise because we can not change who we are in our soul. When you change into someone you are not for the love of someone and to try to find your happiness with someone else at some point the relationship will break down and you will be unhappy.
Love yourself first, don’t change for anyone and don’t look for your happiness in someone else. If you do not do that you will never be truly happy.
Find what makes you happy in your life and the right person who will love you for who you are will appear in your life.
Next, we are going to look at how being over-caution will affect your happiness.
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